Writer / director Siobhan McCarthy’s “She’s The He” is a bit too restless and zippy for me to recommend to anyone but niche audiences, but I can appreciate the ultimate goal of the film. This bold, chaotic, and undeniably modern coming-of-age comedy tackles gender identity, friendship, and societal prejudices with a mix of humor and sincerity. While its frenetic pacing, over-the-top editing, and animation-heavy style may feel overwhelming (I would go so far as to call it an assault on the senses), there’s an undeniable youthful energy driving the film.
The story (which sounds like it has a major “ick” factor, but it actually doesn’t) follows Ethan (Misha Osherovich) and Alex (Nico Carney), two high schoolers who initially pretend to be transgender women for questionable reasons, only for the former to realize she actually is trans. What follows is a messy but heartfelt journey of self-discovery, betrayal, and reconciliation. The film doesn’t shy away from the struggles of coming out (as seen in Ethan’s strained relationship with her mother), but it also highlights the power of community and standing up against transphobia in everyday life.
Though the film’s satire is anything but subtle, its message is clear: trans identities are valid, and attempts to weaponize transphobia for personal gain will ultimately backfire. The movie’s relevance in the current political climate is impossible to ignore, especially as it bravely takes direct aim at harmful anti-trans policies.
“She’s The He” may not be for everyone, but its passionate execution and groundbreaking premise will undoubtedly resonate with many young people. Perhaps the film may even help some in their own journey of self-acceptance. In the end, that’s one of the most powerful things art can do.
By: Louisa Moore