Writer / director Andrew DeYoung’s unpleasant film “Friendship” is designed to make viewers feel uncomfortable with its exploration of social dynamics and personal obsession. The film’s decidedly male point of view delves into the challenges of forming meaningful connections while navigating the pitfalls of insecurity and desperation, but does so in a way that I can best describe as pessimistically awkward.
The story revolves around Craig (Tim Robinson), a suburban dad whose life takes a turn when an accidental delivery leads him to his charismatic new neighbor, Austin (Paul Rudd). The pair share an interest in “cool guy” things like punk rock, urban exploration, and paleolithic artifacts, and it seems like this may be the beginning of a promising friendship. But what begins as a seemingly innocent meet-cute quickly devolves into a masterclass of obsession and social awkwardness, especially because Craig is such a totally awkward weirdo who tries way too hard to fit in. Craig’s earnest attempts to bond with Austin soon spiral into increasingly awkward and invasive behavior, threatening to dismantle both his newfound friendship and his entire personal life.
Robinson, best known for his work on “I Think You Should Leave,” channels his signature style of cringe comedy into the role. His portrayal of Craig’s desperate need for validation and his inability to navigate social norms is both unsettling and fascinating, and it feels embarrassingly authentic. Robinson’s ability to oscillate between childlike vulnerability and uproarious (albeit uncomfortable) rage is on full display, and the film’s focus on social awkwardness and cringe moments may not resonate with everyone.
Rudd provides a charismatic counterbalance, with his signature rugged charm that masks a subtly flawed man. The pair add depth to the dynamics here, creating a contrast between affable and obsessive. The chemistry between Rudd and Robinson is a highlight, with Rudd’s laid-back demeanor providing a sharp foil to Robinson’s intense awkwardness.
The film is peppered with sight gags and absurdist humor but often leans too heavily into its uncomfortable (and dramatic) tone, which can overshadow the much-needed comedic elements. Those expecting a more traditional comedy are going to be disappointed, especially because overall it’s just not all that funny. Everything about this one is odd, but it does feature one of the very worst (and most memorable) cinematic drug trips of all time.
“Friendship” is an uncomfortable story of awkwardness that captures the desperation of a loser trying his best to fit in. It’s not the type of film that is particularly fun to watch, especially because it leans so heavily into off-putting cringe comedy. For that reason, I find it difficult to recommend.
By: Louisa Moore
I think you missed the point.
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Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment — would love to hear your thoughts on the film!
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you were really the wrong person to review this movie. you didn’t understand it at all. went right over your head
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I’m a critic so I see so many different films. This one is simply not good. Glad you enjoyed it, though, and thanks for reading!
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I love Tim Robinson’s fresh take on absurdist comedy. I respect your opinion because you explain your thinking. Maybe the ITYSL conceit begins to chafe after 100 minutes. I used to enjoy watching YouTube clips of Curb Your Enthusiasm but when I finally saw a full episode I felt icky by the end. We’ll see how I feel at the end of Friendship. I’m going to wear an expensive shirt with a really complicated pattern 😀
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I think fans of Robinson are going to love this, I apparently just don’t match up with his sense of humor. Comedy is SO subjective, I know I find lots of things funny that others don’t, so it is always so tricky to review movies like this. Please come back and let me know what you thought of the movie once you see it! I’d love to hear from someone who enjoys Robinson’s style of comedy!
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Saw it, laughed a lot. I doubt anything I can say will convince you that it’s very, very funny. You mentioned that it makes you uncomfortable. Maybe that gets in the way. I don’t like all cringe humor and usually not in doses this large. Maybe I see it as good-natured cringe, as opposed to someone like Tim Heidecker who just seems to be a jerk. Anyhow, I’m not sure if this effort will win Tim Robinson any new fans but I hope so!
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